Police arrested Carson Peters-Berger, 14, in connection with the murder of Lily Peters, 10.Seems some people are overly eager to show how accepting they are, regardless of whether or not the people they are eager to accept are seeking their acceptance.EXCLUSIVE: Teen boy, 14, charged with the rape and murder of his cousin Lily Peters is pictured for the first time as it's revealed he's the son of a convicted pedophile who was caught with a stash of disturbing child porn
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She says she's a liberal pro LGBT with gay friends- presumably her father knows this about her. Or maybe he does and has in which case it's really none of the LW's business, and it blows my mind that she'd think that in his elderly years he'd want to share this with her and talk to her about it if he's kept it from her this long. Something about it has taken his fancy, sexuality is fluid and all that, but this doesnt mean he actually wants to fuck men. I also agree that it's a major leap to assume Dad is closeted or bi just because he likes to look at this sort of porn.
I can't believe she'd even consider telling him she saw this. Use another excuse if she wants to have a conversation about incognito mode- the banking excuse above is a good one. She should absolutely not mention that she saw this porn. And how likely is it for the brother to use Dad's computer when he's down anyway? Brother is out of town, it's unlikely that Dad is going to be watching porn while he's visiting. She can also choose the option to have it clear each time he closes the browser.
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Regardless, she can simply offer to update his virus protection from time to time and clear it herself. Since Dad is not computer savvy, LW herself is in best position to know if he can learn to clear his browser history and use incognito mode.
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Tell him as a result that you want to install virus/malware protection. Say you were checking your email on his computer and you clicked on something that you worry gave him a virus. (It was a horrible book, but it was still less awful than the talk I'd have gotten from a parent who went along with my being forced into conversion therapy.)įunny that Dan and most posters say 80. Coming from a rather high GCCS strain, I didn't get a Talk. In theory, one could say something similar for female LW, only the likelihood that, especially with a mother she remembers so well, the sum of adult instruction she received came from Papa is practically nil. If LW were male and had received The (Dreaded) Sex Talk from Papa, and if it had been excruciating (the example that comes to mind is that of Andrew Tobias, whose description of the desperation with which he managed to bleat that, for crying out loud, he already knew all that stuff, appeared in his pseudonymous memoir The Best Little Boy in the World), then I could see a sort of justice in LW's inflicting an elder's version of The Sex Talk on Papa. I think it COULD make a difference, however, under certain circumstances. It would certainly feel more likely for a male to think his particular genetic inheritance well-functioning, even if that wouldn't be particularly accurate. I'll agree with Ms Fan that it seems comparatively odd for a woman to take her father's continued sexual activity at age 80 as a personal harbinger. LW ought to have put her parenthetical phrase after straight instead of after friends. He will suspect you "caught" him and will go to his grave feeling like his secret has been betrayed. (And presumably Dan has no experience with dealing with the dignity of a nearly 90-year-old man.) He will not appreciate this. She should be ashamed of herself and keep her damn mouth shut.Īnd no, please don't take Dan's advice and drop hints about your gay-friendliness or expressly invite him out to lunch with your gay friends. Granted, it's possible LW couldn't have avoided seeing those tabs, but she went even further than that.
I'd also install and run the necessary antivirus, anti-malware, anti-adware apps, extensions, etc.īut I never - EVER - went snooping into their files or their bookmarks. Even still, through the years, every time I came to visit the folks, I'd take the time to tuneup their computers, because they were both helpless at keeping them uncluttered and functioning properly. He had the world's first "portable" computer (Compaq). My dad started using personal computers in the 1970s.